Monthly Archives: July 2011

Hot In East Texas? Naw, I Don’t Believe It

I’m from East Texas and sometimes it’s wonderful.  Winters aren’t as harsh, spring and fall are just as wonderful.  When it comes summer though, good grief!  You can’t walk out the back door without melting.  What I mean is, you can feel yourself sink into the earth, or pavement as liquid.  It’s like opening an oven door on Thanksgiving.  I’m fairly certain I would have never made in the times before air conditioning.  How did the people do it?

My Grandmother once told me,”pretty much everyone would stop and take breaks while working the fields”.  Now the majority of the population either have tractors that do all the work and most of those have air conditioned cabs.

Dad used to tell us about how he would get up in the middle of the night, go outside to the well and pour water over his head and rush back upstairs so the air coming in the windows would possibly cool his soaked body.  He even said sometimes he would take his sheets and wet them, put them back on the bed. 

Everyone in town pretty much talked about nothing else except for the heat.  “Hot enough for ya?”  “Do ya think it could get much hotter?”  “Lord do we need a couple days rain, crops are going bad”.  “Might as well go to the creek, nothing else to do”. 

Ladies fanned themselves in church and the men whiped the moisture from their faces with handkerchiefs, kids figdeted on the wooden pews and everyone prayed for rain.  After church everyone had lunch and watermelon cooled from the nearby stream. 

Most everyone had a porch, sitting on the porch in the evenings is how lots of folks battled the heat.  So, we here are now.  Spoiled to the luxury of the air conditioner.  That cool air that spreads all over you when you come inside during this time of year.  We now tend to take it for granted unless a unit goes out and we have to either call the repair guy, or go buy another one.  We’ve become a generation of whiners.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m not all that hopped up about going back in time to sweat it out on the front porch.  However I do worry about people who don’t have access to cool air.  There are lots of places you can help, Red Cross is always looking for donations of fans, and older a/c units that work.  Good Will is another place to donate.  Check on your elderly neighbors  and make sure they are ok.  Lots of ways to help out. 

I sometimes wish I could have lived in those days, however July in East Texas?  I think I’m ok living in today.

Someone turn the A/C on please???


Getting A Little Anxious

Anxious?  Me, of course.  However I’m not going to tell you how much I feel pulled in different directions.  (Not this time).  I counted the days this morning,  32 more days till school starts.  If I counted right, and yes, that includes weekends.  As with all moms or just some moms, or maybe just me, I’m ready for school to start again.  That would be one less thing for me to concentrate on.  I always look forward to the last day of school at the end of the school year.  I love spending time with my kiddo’s and not really having to rush around in the mornings and getting to drink my coffee and actually taste it.  It just seems like this time of year, (the end of July) I am craving the quiet of the house where I can go about my work without having to monitor the breakfasts, say anything to anyone about nothing.  I can take as much time as needed to shower and “tend my business”.  I don’t have to referee.  No vacuuming around little feet and having to turn the TV down every time I walk past it.  Ahh, the little things.  But also going to miss those things as well.  Ok, well, only a little.  or not.  Oh come on August! 

This year and last year have been a mind blowing experience for me.  I feel tugged and pulled and just down right exhausted.  Mostly mental.  So I am looking forward to a little quiet time.  When our home gets finished and we get moved in, then I think I can relax.  I hope.  Probably not going to happen though.  Something else will come up and “No rest for the weary”.  

I just can’t wait to be able to do laundry in the house.  No going back and forth to the laundry room, which is outside.  I can stay dry, warm in the winter, cool in the summer, all washing and drying clothes inside.  8 years going outside everyday to do laundry doesn’t make you strong, it makes you appreciate the little things.  Boy will I appreciate the inside laundry room.  Also having a window over the sink, that is going to be nice. 

2006

2006

However nice it’s going to be, it’s also going to be very bittersweet.  No more fields for the kids to play in.  No more going to the ponds and such for them.  No more privacy.  That is going to be the biggest thing.  Where we are now, is quiet, back off the road and no neighbors but one, and they are pretty far away.  Fuzzy B and Furry P do their “business” outside.  Not really looking forward to a litter box.  And now, Johnson who has joined our family and likes to run in the morning isn’t going to be able to.  We see him in the mornings running in the fields at top speed.  He looks like a greyhound while running.  Both back feet and front feet meet in the middle while he is in the air.  Such a beautiful site.  Not going to be a place to run where we are going.  

2006
2006

So, yeah, I’m a little anxious, worried, extremely excited and pretty much overwhelmed.  With everything that has changed in the last few years, I wonder if I’m dreaming all of this.  First Mom, then now all of this.  What a rollercoaster.   But change can be a good thing.  Sometimes a necessary thing.  It keeps you from getting complacent.  I love my life, and the people in it.  I love my family.  I am happy.  Anxious, but extremely happy for the first time in my life.  I am truly happy.  I don’t suppose I’ve ever been happy.  Wow, what a great feeling. 


Update on … Everything

It’s been a while since I’ve been here.  Lots and lots going on.  Mom, new house for us.  I don’t know which way to go anymore.  I like things simple.  Slow.  No hustle and bustle and “get it done now”.  Too much activity just overloads my poor little mind.  So I’m trying to keep my sanity while taking care of as much as I can.  ( I just don’t have a multitasking brain ).  As my peeps know … he he. ;-)

MOM

 We were on the path to breast cancer.  She had the surgery and then then we got the results.  After the tumor was taken out, the few days before radiation was to take place, the surgeon and radiologist told us some odd news.  The mass they took out, MAY not have been cancer after all.  ????  But they said to go ahead and prepare for radiation.  again …?????  So we did.  We drove back to Tyler for the day 1 of the treatments and was then told we could go home.  There was no cancer that the tumor showed no signs of being cancerous????   after we got over the shock of that, we went on our merry way.  Happy that it wasn’t cancer. 

Then after a week, she fell again.  Just like last year.  She stopped eating and would sleep most of the day and night.  She got weaker and weaker.  So we took her to the doctor who admitted her into the hospital.  After two weeks of in and out, we were told she had a fractured vertebrae and all her nutrients were deplenished.   Got her going good again and now she is back home.  Doing better. 

New Home

We are Moving!!!  Came across a really good deal on a slightly damaged, almost brand new home.  YEEEE!  It only needs some TLC and will be our new residence.  We have all been dreaming of having a home of our own where we can stretch and not be right up underneath each other.  A place were the kids can have their own room.  We don’t have to all share a bathroom.  Where I can have a place to cook and put things in drawers and in cabinets and be able to see what I am cooking, and can you tell I am excited?  Tommy and I can have our own bathroom and the kids can have theirs, no more having to schedule out who gets in the shower first in the morning.  YEEEE!  A living room with windows so we can see out and have more light than just the ceiling light.  Central heat and air, no more window units, no more freezing in the winter and huddled against the propane heater.  Ahhh yes.  No more well water.  No more watching how much pressure so as to not burn up the pump!   Told you I was excited. 

However it’s a long process ahead.  But it’s coming along nicely.  Lots of work to do.  Cleaning and repairing.  But we are up for it.  If you’re interested I have added a few photos to my Flickr account in the side bar.  I guess that’s about it for now.  Yeeeee!!!  Can you tell I’m excited??

Not just for the house, but for Mom as well.  Good things can happen when you least expect them.  Thank you Lord, for hearing my prayers ;-)


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